The Balance
The Balance
Greetings Golfers,
Just got back home. Of course … we got hit with a blizzard … but this is March in Minnesota.
Heard a bunch of great podcasts on the drive back. Even one about AI … which I vaguely understand … and definitely don’t know what it means for the future.
I worry about life becoming too mechanical … too robotic … too much emphasis on efficiency.
Obviously those can be good things … but as I tried to say … not too much.
Just read an article about “Fordism” … meaning Henry Ford and his development of the assembly line. The article was concerned that “Fordism” had taken over our society.
I get it. What we need is a balance. Factories can make things more affordable and thus accessible to more people. For example, if you need a table and have little to spend … you can find a cheap functional table pretty easily. Would I rather have a well-crafted non-factory-made table … that could be passed down for generations? Yeah … I’m that guy. Would it be maybe cheaper in the long run? Probably. But what about the person who doesn’t have that option and wants it now?
Since we’re talking about Henry Ford … here’s an example of how this works with cars. I have 2 cars - a fairly new Jeep … and an old Alfa Romeo. The Jeep is very efficient. It works … rain, snow, or shine. The Alfa … not so much. Some years it doesn’t even get out of the shop. Hard to find parts and hard to find people who can work on it.
Why do I own the Alfa? Because I like to drive. I really like to drive. The thought of self-driving cars makes me crazy. Is the Alfa efficient? No. I don’t really trust it. But when I can … I love to drive it to Deer Run on the back roads. It’s a longer, slower route … but really fun if you’re into driving.
If I’m squeezed for time … I take the Jeep and take the highway.
Ok … let’s talk courses. Do I want Deer Run to be more Jeep than Alfa … or vice-versa? I want it to be more Alfa … but still efficient. I think playing golf is more like my loving of driving a car than getting from point A to point B.
Do I want slow rounds and inefficient service? Of course not. But I don’t want the course to feel like a racetrack and that we’re trying to run you out here.
Now this interesting. We share the golf course. We share the planet. How do we keep it personal … and efficient enough to be fair to everyone?
We believe that a 4 hour round is reasonable for everyone … not a race track … but still efficient enough to be fair and not slow. However, there may be “slow-ups” along the way. The group ahead of you may have lost multiple balls on the same hole. That may lead to a slowdown. Once they get settled … things should pick-up and get back on pace.
However … some people think that slow-down should never happen. Or that our staff in the Pub should never get it with a big wave of people that slow-down their order. That way of looking at life is too “Fordism”. People are not robots. Life is not totally about efficiency.
Those type of people are never happy. How could they be? Life is not that mechanical … Thank God!
Life when we’re Down South is more Alfa than Jeep. It’s why we go there. When JFK was elected President, he was asked about Washington DC. He said “It has the efficiency of the South and the charm of the North”. Ouch.
My goal for DRGC is the opposite. I want the charm of the South and the efficiency of the North. Can we do it? We can try. But we’ll never get perfect balance … I just hope it’s close.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
A Shotmaker
A Shotmaker
Greetings Golfers,
Golf: Hit it … find it … hit it.
And you do it on 18 different holes. Holes designed to challenge your skill and your strategy.
Then throw in weather … and you have a constant unique challenge.
And because we’re human … every round is also constant unique challenge. Some days it’s easy … some days it’s unbelievably hard.
But that’s why we play. It’s all about how we deal with it.
And golf is going to put you in situations where you have to hit different types of shots. Hitting it up over a tree is obviously different from punching it under a tree. Both can be very satisfying. Or, very frustrating.
We need to keep working on our shot-making skills to get better at dealing with the challenges. Most people focus too much on trying to develop a “perfect” swing … and trying to hit it far.
Control of the ball is what it’s really about.
Think about it. You try to hit a driver high and far … and you try to roll a putt on the ground into a hole. Pretty different golf shots. Yet necessary to play the game.
I wonder if Rudyard Kipling played golf. You know, the guy who wrote the poem “If”. Here’s an AI description of the famous poem:
“It’s a poem that encourages people to maintain their balance and moral fortitude in the face adversity.”
He had to play golf.
Kipling was also known as a problem solver and is method was based on a series of questions. Here’s how he described it:
“I keep six honest serving men: They taught me all I knew
Their names are What and Why and When
And How and Where and Who
Not sure how much his method helps with solving golf problems … but at least he had the right mind-set for dealing with life … and golf!
Well, keep working on your shot-making … and your problem solving. This could be your best golf year yet.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Harvey Mackay
Harvey Mackay
Greetings Golfers,
This morning I read a great article by Harvey Mackay. You know, the guy who wrote “Swim With The Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive” … a pretty great book about dealing with the reality of the business world.
Actually, I loved it and gave it to all of my managers when it came out back in the 80’s.
For all of our modern “genius” … we take for granted that success in life is all about relationships and priorities. I don’t mean that in a cheesy way of phony relationships and shallow priorities.
People love to denigrate the business world as just being a bunch of ruthless sharks who do anything for money. Are there creepy people like that in the business world? Yeah. But they also exist in the non-business world. They’re just bad people … and I certainly don’t believe that the business world is basically immoral and made to reward such creeps.
Good business people see money as a tool to create a business … and a needed tool to survive and get better. The people who see money as the end-game of life … give business a bad name … and give humanity a bad name.
I don’t know Harvey. I met him once after one of his speeches 30 years ago. He was charming and insightful … I’d even say profound. He sees business through the lens of an entrepreneur and especially as a salesman.
Many business people undervalue the importance of sales. They think that their product or service should just automatically sell itself. They don’t understand or appreciate the value of relationships. Or, they think that sales people’s emphasis on relationships is nothing more than buying the business - meaning trips and dinners and gifts, etc.
To me … it’s all about trust. I deal with people selling golf clubs, balls, clothing, accessories, etc … and food, liquor, beer, soda, etc … and mowers, sprayers, etc … and advertising in magazines, radio, etc … and paving, buildings, etc. I’m going to stop there … you get it. Am I an expert in all of those areas? Hardly. But I’m pretty good at reading people … so I focus on who knows their stuff … and especially - who I can TRUST.
This morning’s article is titled “Focus: The Person Who Is Everywhere Is Nowhere”. Ahhhhhh. I totally agree.
In our attempt to be open-minded … we have relativized everything … everything is of the same value. This is very misguided thinking. If everything is a priority - nothing is a priority. We need to prioritize. Otherwise life becomes overwhelming … and we usually wind-up screwing-up what matters.
A well-run business appears to be easy and simple … almost that it runs itself. Too many people don’t respect that. And, they think the business should be doing more things. They don’t appreciate how difficult it is to run a business so that it looks easy.
Same with a good golf swing. It looks easy. People should be trying to make their golf swings easier and simpler. That can only happen when they start prioritizing what matters in their golf swing. Trying to make a “perfect” swing puts too much value on every part of the swing. Impact and control of the club face are what matters.
Did you know that Harvey Mackay played golf at the U of Minnesota? Yeah - he did. I never saw him play … but had to a very good player.
He also became a very good tennis player. During the 80’s … I was a member of tennis club and played a lot in the winter. One night there, I watched Harvey play a match. His strokes weren’t pretty … but they were very effective … he knew how to make it work.
Here’s a LINK to his article. I think you’ll like it.
The message of good relationships and prioritizing are timeless. They’re at the heart of living a good life. Doesn’t mean you’ll get rich or win the US Open … but you’ll make life simple enough to enjoy it and not be overwhelmed by the impossible goal of perfection.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Motivation
Motivation
Greetings Golfers,
The other day, playing with a group of local characters … I got paired with a guy who played football on a Notre Dame national championship team. He’s a good athlete … also played hockey and baseball. And is a good golfer. And was a successful lawyer.
Why I am telling you about how wonderful this guy is? Because, he needed my constant encouragement to finish his round. He didn’t play the first hole well - not terrible - but was immediately really down on himself. It continued through holes 2 and 3.
I told him that the first three holes are warm-up holes … that the round begins on #4.
Well … I kept at it. “Your swing looks good.” “Just slow down a little … there’s nothing wrong … you just look hurried.” Etc. Oh yeah, “the round begins on the next hole.”
So … who do you think beat me on the back nine? Yeah … he played great.
Maybe yelling at him at football practice would have worked … but yelling at him on the golf course wouldn’t have … he was already yelling at himself inside his head.
I even threw-out the “casually-confident” idea. He liked it … a lot. Maybe I can take all the credit for his well-played back nine. Obviously not … but I can take a little of it. Encouragement is a pretty good way to motivate. Anger/fear isn’t the best … especially in golf.
Though I try to be encouraging to others … sometimes I’m not good at taking my own advice. I’ve gotten dragged into an ugly war recently … I’ve been through plenty of wars, but never enjoy it … yet, I don’t run from them either. However, at my age, I was tempted to move on.
Well a wise family member sent me this quote from Oliver Wendall Holmes, Jr:
Life is painting a picture, not doing a sum.
"As we go about our activities, we will have a richer day when we think of ourselves as painting a picture instead of keeping score. Rather than woodenly completing a task, we might approach it as something that can be made interesting. Instead of driving to work or riding the bus only to reach our destination, we might think of this routine as part of the picture we paint today. When a friend makes a comment, we might think of it as another brush stroke in our painting and join in with him, rather than making a game or contest we must try to win.
Many of us men were taught that success means having the highest score. So we have become compulsively competitive—always trying to be right, always striving for more financial security, or always pushing ourselves for some new achievement. Success may not be coming out on top. When our lives are lived as rich and interesting pictures, we find our rewards are far deeper and more lasting.
May the picture I paint today be one I will carry with me and appreciate."
So that’s my new motivation. I’m not moving on. I’m staying and painting a beautiful picture.
Hope you are too.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Different Strokes
Different Strokes
Greetings Golfers,
I’m writing this from my porch in SC. It’s about 6:15am … and it’s quiet. Not a car on our street or any streets nearby … no lights on in homes … no one walking the sidewalk. The town is quiet.
I love it.
This is a different style of living from my life in Minnesota. I love both. And I respect both.
Both places are little towns … so similar in many ways. Yet … very different.
You know where I’m going with this. Golf. Yes … golf.
Did you read Justin Thomas’ letter to the PGA Tour about needing to make it more human and player accessible? Or Charley Hoffman’s letter to PGA Tour addressing issues such as slow-play and loyalty?
Last year, the PGA Tour saw its final round ratings drop by 19%. Ouch. Why? Gee … that’s tough … maybe because it’s boring?
Why is televised golf boring? Why the new TGL league? Why LIV golf?
Because the game of golf got stuck and has been trying to get unstuck.
Have you ever read “Doctor Golf” by William Price Fox? You should. It’s hilarious. Doctor Golf is an imaginary golf guru who owns a golf sanctuary in Arkansas. He’s a golf snob on steroids who has a golf column like the old “Dear Abby” advice column. Fox wrote it in 1963 … when Arnold Palmer was making the PGA Tour successful.
Arnold Palmer wasn’t boring. He made golf exciting. He wasn’t a snob … he was charming … he was handsome and masculine … he had a crazy swing … and played an aggressive/reckless style of golf.
In one of the letters to Doctor Golf … he’s asked his opinion of Arnie … the Doctor replies “Who ?”.
For Doctor Golf … golf came in one size … and one size only … elite. Old-school elite … almost royalty.
Can golf come in that flavor? Sure why not? I sometimes play an old elite club in SC where the club pros can’t even go in the clubhouse … only members can. It’s their club … I don’t care how they do it. It’s not my scene … but I love the golf course … I love to play golf.
Later today, I’m going to tee-it-up at a funny public course. Can’t wait. They have a pond by the clubhouse with a golf hole on a dock to hit shots at … but usually a gator is sleeping on it. Seriously.
This week is the Phoenix Open. Doctor Golf would lose his mind.
Should every Tour event be like the Phoenix Open? Should every Tour event be like the Masters?
Golf is getting unstuck. But it doesn’t have to throw old-school golf out the window. Because it isn’t the only model.
How would I improve golf tv ratings? I’m glad you asked. Simple. Don’t cute it up. Just explain what’s going on. The announcers never bring you into the real action. They’re always jumping around the course and mostly showing random guys making putts. Who cares? Maybe if you have bets on the players it’s interesting. Otherwise … show the action. Set-up how the hole is designed. The risks and rewards. How the wind is affecting the strategy. The tendencies of the leaders. What they’re struggling with and why.
Tony Romo does a pretty good job of this with football. He brings you into the game. That’s what televised golf needs.
Ok … this is getting too long. And now it’s 7:15 and cars are actually on the streets. Well … a few.
But before I go … I wanted to talk about my latest golf “insight”. About attitude. When you tee-it-up … take the attitude of “casually-confident”. I think you’ll like.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Golf Anywhere - Anytime
Golf Anywhere - Anytime
Greetings Golfers,
Just heard that some golf courses are reopening in Minnesota. I think that’s great!
Obviously, it depends on the course. Though we’re all selling golf … we’re selling different versions of golf. One of the beauties of the game is that it can be played in many variations. But it all comes down to hitting a rock with a stick.
The other night, while talking about getting old … a friend said that the two main determiners to good health in old age are grip strength and balance.
Hmmmmmmm.
That’s what matters in golf at any age.
One of my golf heroes - recommends tying your shoes while standing on one leg. Try it … it’s not easy. But think how good that is for your balance.
I had one of those grip-squeezers up in my office … but I gave it away. Think that I need a new one … and actually have to start using it.
Also, it’s harder to make a full backswing as we get older. Try swinging like Bobby Jones. What I mean is, lift your left heel fully and turn your foot so that your left knee makes a full-turn on the backswing. Then hold at the top of the backswing. You should be balanced and fully turned. Then swing through into your follow-through and it should be a reverse picture of the top of your backswing.
Then just keep doing it back and forth. It’s a great drill to complete your swing … and a great way to develop rhythm.
The idea to keep the left foot flat so that you increase torque is only for youngsters. And … youngsters should practice this drill anyway. Especially as they’re building a golf swing. They can always tighten-it-up … but they need to learn a full golf swing with a good turn and a good weight-shift … this drill is the perfect way to develop a golf swing … at any age.
Then, we need drills to improve our balance and strengthen our hands.
So … we can play golf anywhere at anytime. Even in Minnesota during the winter!
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
The PGA Show
The PGA Show
Greetings Golfers,
Pretty crazy weather week. I left Beaufort before it got covered in snow. It’s not warm here in Orlando - but I’m at the PGA Show - not playing golf.
As I’ve made clear over the years - I love the PGA Show! It’s one of my favorite weeks of the year. Well, it’s not really a week … it used to be a week … now it’s only 3 days. Not enough time to really see everything … and see everyone.
As much as I love seeing everything related to golf … I love seeing these golf people even more. The evenings spent talking everything golf in the lobby of the same hotel over the last 30+ years is even better than that movie “My Dinner With Andre”.
Ok … what’s new at the Show? Well, I’m writing this Thursday morning … and yesterday (Wednesday) was the first day … so haven’t seen everything. So far it doesn’t seem like much is new … but it seems that products are getting better. I’m talking equipment, clothing, carts, tech … everything.
However, what I’m most excited about is an old-school company in England that has great flagsticks, flags, trash cans, etc. I know it sounds goofy that I’m so excited about this stuff … but it’s really cool. I never knew that courses used to use yellow flags on the front-nine and red flags on the back-nine. Well, where do you think you’re going to see that in 2025? Can’t wait to do it.
That is what’s become so fun about the Show. The new innovative stuff … and the old-school stuff is all under the same roof. Why not see it all and figure out what’s best for your course? There’s no reason to get stuck in a rut.
Well, I have to go to work. I know, I know … not exactly slave labor. I’m not complaining. In fact, I couldn’t enjoy it more.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
TV and Manners and Golf
TV and Manners and Golf
Greetings Golfers,
People keep asking me about Tiger and Rory’s TGL … and Bryson DeChambeau’s YouTube golf show.
Well, confession time: I haven’t seen either one yet. I will watch them eventually—I’m just not sure how often. I genuinely wish them the best. I’m all for golf taking on more of a role in pop culture. Golf is versatile—it can wear many hats. That doesn’t mean I’ll love every hat it tries on. I like food too, but that doesn’t mean I’m up for gas station sushi or whatever it is they’re serving at that “bacon air” restaurant downtown.
Speaking of TV, I have been watching some other shows. Currently, I’m hooked on A Gentleman in Moscow and Land Man. One’s about a Russian royal sentenced to live in a fancy hotel after the 1917 Revolution, and the other is about a wildcat oilman drilling for Texas tea in Midland. So basically, one guy is navigating aristocratic exile, and the other is playing high-stakes poker with dynamite. Light, easy-watching stuff.
Oddly enough, these shows have more in common than you’d think. Both main characters are trapped—one by a revolution and a hotel concierge, the other by the high-octane chaos of oil drilling. They’re also both excellent at one thing: dealing with the messy reality of life.
Here’s the kicker: the Russian royal’s good manners are almost his undoing. The Communists saw politeness as a symbol of oppression, so they decided to do away with it altogether. I guess yelling “Do you want fries with that, comrade?” became the new polite. The problem with abandoning good manners is that it leads to the world of “might makes right.” And nothing says, “We’ve truly evolved as a society” like a playground brawl with nuclear weapons.
Meanwhile, our oilman in Texas? Brutal industry, dangerous job, but the guy still treats people with respect—even when he’s knee-deep in crude oil and chaos. That’s what makes the show watchable. It’s not just explosions and drama; it’s about dignity.
Now, let’s circle back to golf. Down here in the South, good manners are the norm. Sure, some people use them as a cover for being phony—like saying “bless your heart” when what they really mean is “you’re as sharp as a bowling ball.” But bad manners? No.
Golf, in its purest form, is a breeding ground for good manners. You’re sharing a course with others. If you’re rude or selfish, it’s impossible to hide. And as for the whole “hyper-quiet on the course” thing? I’ve never been a fan. It’s less about courtesy and more about narcissism.
So yes, I’ll give those new golf shows a shot. Golf’s trying new “menus,” and I’m always open to tasting something different. But just like any restaurant, I’ve got to like the food and the atmosphere. Here’s hoping they nail that vibe of mutual respect—and maybe even sprinkle in a little fun!
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
The Pause That Refreshes
The Pause That Refreshes
Greetings Golfers,
We got here Sunday night. So of course I played golf on Monday with that usual group of guys. Hadn’t hit a ball in months … had zero expectations … yet played decent on the front. Played worse on the back. Hmmmm. The guru of the group said that my rhythm changed on the back.
So let’s analyze this. Having no expectations … I had a nice rhythmic swing. As I began playing decently - and then having higher expectations - I lost my rhythm and began forcing it … which didn’t work very well.
How do we keep our rhythm? For me, a good drill is to practice swinging with a pause at the top of the backswing. In fact, even coming to a full stop … and from there … finishing the swing.
Hogan used to say that the transition from the backswing to the downswing is the most important part of the golf swing.
You can see the same transition when a quarterback throws the ball. Obviously it’s difficult with monsters try to get you … but you can see it when they’re doing it. If not … they lose that timing and start sailing their throws. Which was on display Monday night against the Lions.
Supposedly, Coca-Cola’s most important advertising campaign was “The Pause That Refreshes” … started in 1929. “It encapsulated the essence of Coca-Cola as a brand. It came at a time when the company was not merely selling soda but a promise of happiness, refreshment, and a brief respite from life’s challenges. This was more than a marketing gimmick; it was a defining moment in brand storytelling”.
Wow. I’d say that about golf: “A promise of happiness, refreshment, and a brief respite from life’s challenges”.
And … we can enjoy that promise if we’re hitting the ball decently.
Coke didn’t know they were talking about golf … but they were.
The Pause That Refreshes.
Ahhhhhhhh.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Good Judgement
Good Judgement
Greetings Golfers,
The other day while listening to a radio show in my car … the “host” reminisced about playing the jukebox when he was in college. He proudly said that he always played a certain song because it was 6 minutes long and that way he got his money’s worth.
Wow.
Talk about quantifying everything. So quality doesn’t matter … all that matters is quantity.
When I used to play songs on a jukebox … I actually chose the songs I liked … and ones that seemed to make sense for the situation. If the length of the song was a factor … it was a tiny factor.
Ok … was quantity a factor in other things during those times. Yeah. I was usually shooting pool and drinking beer. I wasn’t fussy about the beer … I chose quantity. I was in college … I didn’t have any money!
But … music? Never. That represented my soul.
It seems that quantifying too often overrides judgement.
Numbers should be a factor in making decisions … but not the only factor.
However … judgement … puts the decision maker at risk. Obviously not every decision is perfect or even works out. There is always risk involved. And … totally relying on numbers is a safe way to absolve responsibility if things don’t work out.
But if that’s how to run things … why even have decision makers? Sounds to me like robots could do the job.
So … you’re a 150 yards from the pin … and for you that’s a 7 iron. But … what if it’s windy? What if you’re tired? What if the pin is at the front of the green and there’s a sharp drop-off in front of the green? Obviously there are a lot of factors.
Do you only choose a golf ball because it goes far? … but you don’t have any feel with it around the green?
When a certain local business magazine writes about golf … at the end of each article is a list of golf courses with the highest slope numbers. Does that mean those are the best golf courses? That’s the only factor?
Do you like spicy food? Is the spiciest food the best food? What if I poured a whole bottle of spice on it … now is it better?
Doesn’t this deny common-sense?
More is not always better. Sometimes less is more. The art to anything is getting things right.
Oh … maybe the longest song is the best song. How about an hour long song of just annoying noise?
Back to our radio host. I’ve always found him boring. Even annoying. He’s arrogant … though he talks in a moderated radio voice … and tries to act like he’s the reasonable one … and everyone else is not on his correct wavelength. But to me … he’s always been a robot dressed-up in an Ivy League resume and a “smooth” radio voice.
Of course he would choose a long song instead of good one … good judgement involves using your soul.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Happy New Year!
Happy New Year!
Greetings Golfers,
Every year, most of us look forward to a new year - a new beginning (some years more than others!).
And New Year resolutions have become as normal to the New Year as Christmas presents are to Christmas.
Probably the most typical resolutions are about health: losing weight, getting in shape, etc.
Being golfers, we need to do those things … and improve our golf game. We can always improve our chipping and putting. And, improve our golf swing. But just improving our golf swing won’t make-up for not improving our health and short-game.
We need to do it all.
That wasn’t meant to sound overwhelming … it’s just the truth. We can do it … but, I recommend baby steps … not leaps. Everyday, eat better (and less) … do some exercises … go for a walk. You’re not Rocky preparing to fight Apollo Creed … you’re just trying to improve.
We all want to hear what we want to hear. Thus … we’re vulnerable to quick fixes, magic pills, short cuts, etc. But hearing what you want to hear isn’t always good.
Well, I have no agenda. I’m not running for office or selling a video of how to be a scratch player in one week. I’m just recommending being the tortoise instead of the hare.
It will be a good year … step-by-step.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
What is Unseen
What Is Unseen
Greetings Golfers,
One of my all time favorite books is “That Which Is Seen, and That Which Is Not Seen” by Frederic Bastiat. Though Bastiat wrote his treatise on economics, the premise applies to understanding anything.
As we grow up, hopefully, we learn from experience. But, too often, we only learn the immediate result - we don’t see the other results of our actions. Usually, our actions have unintended consequences. Thus, we need to develop foresight to become aware of the consequences of our actions.
Usually, the quick fix doesn’t solve the problem because it doesn’t get to the root of the problem. Obviously if you’re bleeding, you need a band-aid - but, band-aids are usually only temporary fixes.
You get the point ... you don’t need me to belabor how short-sightedness hurts our health, our relationships, our businesses, our economy, etc.
What blows my mind is that Bastiat wrote this book in 1840, and it seems that we still haven’t learned this basic lesson. Maybe it’s because our lives are so short that society doesn’t learn mature lessons.
Ironically, as we become more modern and “advanced”, we want immediate gratification. A fast-paced consumer society can easily become shallow and short-sighted. But a communistic society is based on “materialism” - I mean the Marxist definition of materialism - that life is only what you see (matter) and not spiritual.
I believe that the lack of spirituality is at the root of the problem. If humans do not believe that life is more than it seems ... their view of life has to be pretty superficial. The depth of life is what gives it meaning, what makes it make sense - it is “that which is unseen”.
The beauty of the Christmas season is wonderful - enjoy it. But, especially treasure the beauty that underlies the visible world ... that’s what this Holiday Season is really about.
Merry Christmas,
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Priorities
Priorities
Greetings Golfers,
Last weekend, a few courses around here opened for play. Last night when I went out to dinner … my car said it was -7 outside. It felt colder.
So … now is a good time to stay inside and watch sports. This weekend is the PNC Championship … where Tour players play with their child or grandchild. I think it’s fun … and funny.
Speaking of funny … I thought that the Michigan players planting their flag on the Ohio State field was funny. The scuffle probably wasn’t that funny … take a look at it HERE. You can see there was some scuffling before the planting of the flag. Hey … these are the #1 and #3 all-time winningest college football programs … the biggest rivalry of all. It will get contentious.
However, an Ohio congressman wants to pass a bill that “flag-planting” will be a felony. A felony? Are you kidding?
So … people are outraged about a basically funny-ridiculous part of college football … but are not outraged about a Minnesota 50 year-old father of two who gets assassinated because he works for a healthcare company.
I’m not going to get into our country’s healthcare situation. I agree it needs major changes. But murdering a company employee is horrendous … and not the solution.
Whereas a college football rivalry that gets over-heated is not horrendous … and making it criminal is not the solution.
Talk about not getting your priorities right.
So … let’s relax and make the best of this cold weather. It’s still not super cold … but I can’t handle super cold.
The other day I ran into a guy ringing a bell for the Salvation Army Christmas fund raiser in front of a grocery store. It was cold. I asked him if he remembered refereeing my 8th grade hockey game that was -20. He did. He REALLY did! He said it took him a week to warm-up. We got to warm-up in the bus after every shift … he had to stay on the ice.
He’s that guy. Referring kids hockey in ridiculous weather … and ringing the bell for charity on a cold December day.
Do you think he has his priorities right?
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Wealth… Health… and Santas
Wealth... Health... and Santas
Greetings Golfers,
You know you’re getting old, when 30 years ago feels like yesterday.
So … 30 years ago … my wife and I went with her family for a Christmas shopping and eating (and drinking) weekend in Chicago.
The highlight was walking down Michigan Ave and running into about 50 Santas. We thought it was really funny (yes - we had been drinking).
On a more sober note … I brought along Adam Smith’s “Wealth of Nations” book. I don’t sleep well - especially in hotels - so that’s when I read.
At the time … I was really impressed by the book … and I thought that Smith made a moral case for his ideas of wealth and Capitalism.
Well … 30 years later … I’m not so sure. I think he equates wealth too much with money. Hear me out:
What if I declared that we had a record year at DRGC because we made record money? But … in order to do that … we skimped on fertilizing the greens and fairways so that they were unhealthy … and that we used-up the maintenance equipment .. and the Clubhouse was falling apart … and Staff quit and hated us.
In that case … we are not wealthy … we’re poor.
Health is wealth.
Health matters if you’re going to keep living. If the goal is to have a pot of money then die … then money is the only goal.
But … what about the continuation of life? If all those scenarios I said about DRGC had happened … what happens next year?
When people run their lives or businesses or countries for money only … everything becomes short-term at the expense of everything else.
This is not the fault of Capitalism. This is the fault of seeing money as the goal instead of seeing money as a tool to reach goals.
Just read an article about Scottie Scheffler … here’s the title “Although it’s unlikely, Scottie Scheffler would love to stop being asked about money” … here’s the LINK
Here’s the first sentence of the article “However, like other golfers, most of the questions Scheffler has faced over this span have little to do with what’s going on inside the ropes.”
What’s going on? I want to know about what’s going on inside the ropes. I’m interested in what the best golfer in the world has to say about playing golf. I have a million questions for him about golf. I don’t care about his money.
We’ve gotten too into quantifying everything. Quantifying is a tool. Years ago, one of my former assistants was interview in a magazine when he became a Head Pro. He said that one of my mantras to him was “Know your numbers”.
Yes. Know your numbers. Know your number when you’re hitting into the green. But that knowledge is a tool for doing what matters.
Adam Smith put too much emphasis on numbers. I’ve read that he had almost zero common sense. The stories are incredible. But I’m not surprised. It’s easy to sit on the sidelines and judge things … and then nitpick. Numbers are an easy tool to use to nitpick success … and overlook the rest of the picture.
Well … I hope I have another 30 years to keep learning … and doing. And I hope our country starts looking at wealth in a healthier way.
Wealth without health doesn’t last.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Christmas Sale - Sat. December 7
Christmas Sale - Saturday, Dec. 7
Greetings Golfers,
On Saturday, Dec. 7 … from 9am - 2pm … is our legendary annual Sale.
Everything is 50% off.
It is a real sale. Not jacked-up prices … then 50% off. Not … bringing in goofy merchandise to make an extra buck. Not … hiding inventory in the back room for next year.
This is the real deal.
And … we’re also selling the Holiday Passes.
And … we’re also drowning you in Bailey’s and Egg Nog and Jameson and Christmas cookies … and coffee.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Leadership - Flow - Gratitude
Leadership - Flow - Gratitude
Greetings Golfers,
(I hate to start with this … but everybody is asking about the Sale … it’s Saturday, Dec. 6 … 9 to noon.)
Ok … here we go … bear with me … I want to talk about Leadership, Flow, and Gratitude. Let’s see where this goes.
So the Vikings are 9-2. Did you watch last week’s game against the Bears? How crazy was that? But the Vikings won. Again.
Why are they winning? They don’t look very good. The reason they don’t look very good … is because they don’t have the horses. Some people would blame the coach … rather than realize the coach is why they’re winning.
Leadership is underrated. I’m serious. Some people like to think that leaders are just figureheads … or just the person in the role … but not really that important. They think that the team or organization is what it’s all about … leadership or not.
I’m not saying it’s all a one-man-show … but leadership is the vital role.
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi was noted for his work in the study of happiness and creativity … but is best known as the architect of the notion of Flow. He said that “people are happiest when they are in a state of Flow … a state of concentration or complete absorption with the activity at hand”.
Can a great football coach get his guys there?
Doing things for the love of it … not for the reward … is the secret. The reward will follow.
As Cicero said “Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others”.
I know … I know … another leap. But … what if the coach/leader can get his people to a place of Gratitude? Wouldn’t that lead to a place of Flow?
You see it in everything. People who go through treatment and come out motivated to do the right thing … usually get their life back on track. Their goal is not the money/success … but rather to do things right … which usually leads to success.
Too often, just focusing on the reward … leads to acting like a criminal. That doesn’t make someone strong. And a good leader gets people to do the right thing for the right reason.
Playing golf for the sheer love of it is very different from playing golf for the reward. How often have we seen a Tour player win after the loss of a family member who they dedicated the tournament to. They were playing for love.
Or the player who lost their card and crashed and burned. And came back with a new attitude of playing for the love of the game.
Well, I think a good leader inspires. A poor leader is just a boss who controls by fear.
A good leader makes it look easy. A good golfer makes it look easy. Being in the Flow makes things look easy.
It looks like Kevin O’Connell connects with his players. I hope they keep playing for the sheer joy of playing the game. If they do … good things will happen.
They should be grateful that they have the opportunity to play football for their living. And they should be grateful for waking up each day.
So should we.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Jim Emmer
Jim Emmer
Greetings Golfers,
I come to you with a heavy heart. One of my best friends and one of Deer Run’s best friends … died of a heart-attack on Monday.
Jim Emmer was a larger-than-life fellow. He was not your cliche staid-Minnesotan. He was fun, funny, charming … and spoke his mind.
The early days at DRGC were not easy. Jim was on the Mens Club Board that I created in the Fall of 1991. We had no players. By 1994 … we had over 300 members in the Mens Club … and a busy golf course. But our problems were not over. In fact, drama and power plays took over. I walked away. But Jim talked me into coming back.
That was not the last time that Jim was there for me. Over the past 34 years, I’ve been in a bunch brutal wars … Jim always had my back. After the wars … lots of people acted like they were there for me … they weren’t … but Jim was. He was that guy.
Not only was he a driving force at Deer Run … he was a major player in everything else that was happening in town.
Father Bob White - the incredible leader at St. Victoria Church - was one of Jim’s high school friends and came out here because of him.
Holy Family High School seemed to come out nowhere when it opened in 2000. Jim Emmer was one of the main reasons it all came together and magically opened.
As you can see … he was driving the success of Victoria from behind the scenes. His drive and guts and personality got great things started … and he stayed with them to make sure they survived and thrived.
Jim was always a leader. He played hockey and was student body president at St. Thomas Academy. After graduating from the University of St. Thomas … he married Nan and they raised their sons - Tim and Patrick in south Minneapolis … before moving to Victoria in 1993.
I can’t believe how far Victoria has come in the last 30 years. Jim Emmer had a lot to do with that … more than most people know. I was hoping that he had another 30 years to keep us on track.
Well … he built the track … and showed us how to stay on it. I can’t thank him enough.
R. I. P.
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
The Journey
The Journey
Greetings Golfers,
Do you remember David Duval? Kind of a weird question … he’s not dead … in fact, he just turned 53 a few days ago … but he’s been off the golf radar for a long time.
From 1997 to 2001 … he was at the top with Tiger. In 1998 he led the PGA Tour money list and also won the Vardon Trophy and Byron Nelson Award for lowest scoring average. Then in 1991, he shot 59 in the last round to win the Bob Hope Classic at PGA West.
During that 5 year stretch, he played great in the Majors … but the Open Championship in 2001 was his only Major win. A few months after that, he won the Dunlop Phoenix Tournament - his last worldwide win.
At only 30 years old … he was basically done. I don’t know what happened. There was talk of injuries … and personal “stuff”.
I saw him play at the “Dayton’s Challenge” at Minneapolis GC in his glory days. As good as those guys were … he looked like he was in a different class. His swing looked effortless … and the ball seemed to stick on his club-face … so that he could just drop his shots exactly where he wanted … and that they would stay there. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing.
How that magic went away … I have no idea. But I would love to know. Duval is bright guy. Though I watch very little golf on television … I’ve seen him as a commentator on tournaments … and as an analyst in group discussions. He’s always insightful … and not afraid to disagree with the group.
Twenty years ago (?) … I was resting in the back of the Nike showroom at the PGA Show in Orlando. Duval sat down and just started shooting-the-bull with me. He was casual and down-to-earth. And just a friendly, bright guy. Seemed like someone you’d want to hang-out with at a Pub … or play golf with.
I’d like to know more about his “journey”. Tolstoy said “all great literature is one of two stories; a man goes on a journey or a stranger comes to town”.
Babysitting our granddaughters is really fun. And, I see better tv shows with them … than the junk we usually watch. The other night we watched “ Moana” … and a few weeks ago saw “The Lion King”. Talk about great stories! They aren’t literature … but Tolstoy’s saying applies to both of their “journeys”.
Those type of myths are embedded in our souls. They really grab me. The “journey” … filled with ups & downs … and then always the turning point of giving-up or stepping-up.
Too much of the junk aimed for us “adults” is the opposite. Not the heroic journey filled with meaning … but a bleakness based on a meaningless “journey”. That becoming “aware” means shedding the false truths of past civilizations and embracing a cold, cruel, empty world. Ugh.
At least they’re not making that garbage for kids. Or I hope not. I guess they think that having hope is only for children.
Well, I don’t look at the world like that. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone.
I’d like to know more about David Duval’s “journey”. My hunch is it would be meaningful and hopeful … like what Tolstoy was talking about. I hope he shares it.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com
Holiday Passes
Greetings Golfers,
Here’s what you’ve been waiting for!
Our famous Holiday Passes. On sale from Nov. 20 - Dec. 20.
What began as just a simple offering for Christmas presents … has turned into a big deal.
The 12 pack and 24 pack are the same price as last year. The 4 pack and 8 pack have slight increases.
They have no restrictions … and no expiration date. Merry Christmas!
RARE AND EXCLUSIVE DRGC HOLIDAY SPECIAL
Available until December 20
Festive Foursome - 4 rounds of golf with carts-$340
(savings of $20)
Happy Eight - 8 rounds of golf with carts - $640
(savings of $80)
Cheery Twelve - 12 rounds of golf with carts - $900
(savings of $180)
Tubular Twentyfour-24 rounds of golf w/carts-$1,700
(savings of $460)
We will mail out ASAP
Cheers!
Impact VI
Impact VI
Greetings Golfers,
During the golf season, I seldom see other golf pros … I’m too busy working. Some pros play a lot of tournaments and get to see the gang … but most of us just live at our golf course.
I’m not complaining. I love it. However, I would like to play more golf … and see the other golf pros more often.
Well, since we closed on Oct. 27 … it’s been a marathon of seeing golf pros … and playing golf … no one should love it as much as I do. Had our MN PGA Fall Meeting last week … and played two rounds … and a few holes. Don’t laugh - it was great. Especially seeing people.
Went on great adventure to Brainerd with 2 of my favorite people in golf … in fact just 2 of my favorite people on the planet.
And … had another great guy in my office solving the deep issues of existence … and the golf swing. Can’t believe how much I enjoyed it.
What I’m trying to say is that golf attracts people who I love as much as I love to play golf.
Obviously our country went through an emotional week. I get it. I’m just grateful to live in a country where golf is available … and with people who love the game as much as I do.
I wish that everyone could share in that joy. And those of us working in golf need to make sure that the game stays accessible … and becomes even more available to everyone.
Golf could be the great healer.
Cheers,
Tom Abts
GM/Head PGA Professional
tabts@deerrungolf.com